Here's a secret- Innocence is over-rated! Seriously girls, don't bother saving yourselves. Sure its a bonus if you love the guy, but generally its not the end of the world to just do it with someone you trust and like. It is not some mind-blowing experience that will change your life. 99% of the time, girls feel let-down by their first time, and why? Because they've built that moment up in their heads. Get it over with, because sex sucks at first. And if you are planning on doing it with your high school sweetheart who is also a virgin, then I dont bet on it lasting more than a minute. But don't worry, it gets better. Sex can be awesome. All i'm saying is, don't put that moment up on a pedestal. And if you lose it to ‘the wrong guy', you won't regret it for ‘the rest of your life'. It's ok. You'll get over it. (Although if you're waiting because you're not ready, then don't feel pressured by some jerk obviously). Oh and one more thing- this is another big secret so get ready- It doesn't actually matter if you've had sex or not! I've read too many confessions saying ‘i'm 21 and a virgin. I am so pathetic'. For fucks sake. I know plenty of virgins who are excellent, and plenty of people who have managed to get laid that are total pricks. You are no worse a person for not doing it. So I guess all i'm trying to say is, take sex down off that podium. Just enjoy it. AND CHILL THE FUCK OUT. Confess ID: 3kpdk3pn        Posted On: 09-Sep-2008