It is not easy to get over someone you really loved and were devoted to. But there comes a stage in life when you have to move on because there is definitely something better in store for you. Whether the break-up was bitter or amicable, it still causes pain. Emotions get stirred up when its time to say good-bye. How truly are you over your ex? Read the following and cross check, but be honest. 1) “My Heart Will Go On”, “Be With You” and many such mellow, romantic songs are not in your Ipod playlist. 2) You have stopped chatting with your ex or have stopped calling him/her to find out what they are up to. Blank calls are included in this. 3) You have removed your ex’s photograph from your desk, or nightstand. The photos of you as a couple have been permanently deleted. 4) You have cleared your cupboard and drawers of all the presents that he/she had given you. 5) Discussions about your ex amongst your other friends have stopped. This clearly shows that you aren’t thinking about him/her anymore. 6) You have stopped hanging out at places where both of you often visited like coffee shops, discos or even bookstore. 7) You have resisted the temptation of standing at a distance and trying to get a glimpse of your ex when he/she leaves from work. 8) You are undisturbed when you find out that your ex is seeing someone else. The urge to see if he/she is better than you, no longer affects you. This clearly shows that you know and have understood that your paths are different. If you are able to identify with the points that are listed, then you have reached a new level.

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